Archive for the ‘Virginia’ Category

How dumb should schools get about sexting?

Wednesday, February 24th, 2010

This article in District Administration was too good to pass up.

While investigating a tip that a student had a picture of another, partially nude, female student on his cell phone, Ting-Yei Oei, assistant principal at Freedom High School in Loudoun County, Va., asked the student to e-mail the picture to his own cell phone.

LMAO!  This reminds me of a federal child porn appeal I sat in on where the judge wanted to see the single picture for which the woman defendant had been prosecuted.  The attorney for he state refused to send it to him for fear she would herself then be in violation of the child porn laws.   The content of the picture really wasn’t at issue in the appeal.  The attorney apparently drove the picture back up to Pasadena from San Diego to show the judge rather than send it through the mail.

The sexting article goes on to discuss how schools should best handle sexting cases, with a slant toward not getting involved unless the behavior becomes disruptive or the sexting involves use of school computers.  Certainly, students should have an assumption of privacy when communicating with their own personal cell phone and even, to some extent, when using school computers. The school doesn’t have the right to listen in on a student’s phone call if they are using a pay phone on campus, so it shouldn’t feel automatically entitled to horn in on communications using school computers.

In essence, if a student decides to send a nude picture of themselves to a friend using their personal phone, it’s none of the schools business unless the act of sending that message negatively affects the school in some clearly identifiable way.  Not every activity, even on campus, automatically demands regulations and rules.

Women having wilder sex, watching more porn

Saturday, February 20th, 2010

According to a survey of 4200 women, they are having sex less often, but getting crazier when they do have it.

But, even more interesting is this:

For instance, around 76 per cent of women now admit to using porn – a ten per cent rise on the two-thirds of girls who admitted to watching porn with their partners in a survey last year.

I’ll bet the anti-porn crusaders would be disappointed to hear that.  And given their contention that increased use of porn results in relationship problems, they might be even more disappointed to hear that just the opposite is happening:

Last year’s survey, by website Netmums, showed more than half weren’t happy in the bedroom, but this year more than 60 per cent claimed to enjoy fulfilling sex.

And finally:

More than half of the women surveyed used sex toys in the bedroom to add a buzz of excitement.

I wonder how many of those surveyed live in states stuck in the Dark Ages where sex toys are illegal (Alabama, Colorado, Georgia, Kansas, Louisiana, Mississippi, Texas and Virginia).

Man fired for saying a bad word

Friday, February 19th, 2010

But, we can’t tell you what the word is because then we’d be just like the guy who was fired.

That’s basically how this story comes across.   A Style Weekly reporter sent an email that referred to someone in a disparaging way, but the message went to the wrong person, which ultimately led to the sender being fired.

So, while the Richmond Times-Dispatch thought the story significant enough to be worth reporting, the single most important detail was left out so as not to offend someone.  Instead we see this: [expletive]

For all the complaining the mainstream media do about amateur journalism on the internet, at least many of those “amateurs” understand one thing better than the mainstream media ever will.  People deserve to hear news that hasn’t been filtered by a bunch of busy-bodies whose main priority is not about reporting, but not offending.

Diary of Anne Frank pulled for “vagina” passage

Friday, January 29th, 2010

Apparently fearing that children might find out about sexual anatomy  before they are emotionally equipped to deal with it, a Virginia school district removed The Diary of Anne Frank from shelves when a parent complained about a passage in the book where Anne Frank describes her vagina.

The offending passage:

There are little folds of skin all over the place, you can hardly find it. The little hole underneath is so terribly small that I simply can’t imagine how a man can get in there, let alone how a whole baby can get out!

The book tells the true autobiographical story of a thirteen year old girl hiding from the Nazis for two years with her family in an attic in the Netherlands.  It is stunning that such a well known literary work could be summarily dismissed based on a single paragraph that simply mentions genital anatomy.  When I say stunning, I mean it is nearly beyond belief that there could be even a moment when the school would consider pulling it, much less actually going through with it.

One could only imagine what important works might have been mindlessly disposed of  after the Second World War if it had been up to people like the administrators of  the Culpeper County Public Schools.

The other day I was watching The World at War on the Military Channel and I was struck by the fact that they had blurred the genitalia of the dead victims of the Holocaust.  One can only wonder at what priorities would  lead The Military Channel to edit original historical footage of people who were systematically persecuted, tortured, and murdered by the millions to make sure that no one was offended, not by the obvious starvation,  not by the cages in which they were housed, not by the apparent lack of medical attention, not by the desolate faces of utter despair, not by the mountains of death, but by the nudity.

Folks, the inmates have clearly taken over the asylum.